Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Nursing nightmare round 1

I think breastfeeding is a topic that everyone has a strong opinion on whether they have a clue about what they are talking about or not. I breastfed Ethan. It was the hardest thing I had ever done. Harder than child birth. I took two pain killers not for the fourth degree tear I experienced, rather the horrific stabbing sensation that came every 2-3 hours around the clock for three months straight. I refused to give up. I knew the benefits and I wanted my son to have every advantage he could.  Did you know that breast fed babies have the immunities mom has had?  It makes babies smart, decreases allergies, reduces chance of Crohns Disease and diabetes and more!  http://www.notmilk.com/101.html
I wanted that for my baby.
 I was willing to do whatever it took. I had a lactation consultant come to my house to assist. In addition to the horrific pain, I also had low milk supply. It could have been from many things. The stupid advice I got about not spoiling your baby and only feeding him every three hours, the fake lactation advisor my pediatric office had gave me the great idea for Ethan to eat less so he conserves calories, the nipple shield that same woman advised. Looking back, I  think he had a lip tye. I had three months of formula free feeding but had to supplement most of Ethan's beginning months. I pumped after every feeding, power pumped, used Fenugreek, blessed thistle, Mother's Love, Mother's milk tea, Domperidone, lactation smoothies, oatmeal, and lots of water. One thing I learned was I was so concerned about my nutrition. My lactation consultant told me that was not a worry just look at women in third world countries who have thriving breastfed children. If you struggle with breastfeeding, the best thing my consultant had me do was supplement at the breast. She had these special feeding tubes that cost three dollars. After I nursed, I would add the tube and finish feeding. My son would drink his formula but also get an addition ounce from me. That helped my supply a ton. Shoutout Wendy Blumberg, best lactation consultant ever!
After two weeks I weaned off of one pain pill. After three months I weaned from the second only because my liver levels were alarming. At three months the pain finally went away. My hard work paid off. I was able to nurse Ethan 18 months. I quit only because he started pulling at my shirt and when he wanted milk he would start trying to help me out.
I want to give advice to future nursing moms. People's opinions don't matter. It was shocking some of the things I heard though. There is no benefit to nursing, it was bad for the baby, I shouldn't nurse in public, and the most frustrating, women should only nurse for 6 months because that's how long cattle do it.   Mind you these were all people close to me. It hurt. I praise Gid for a supportive husband or I know I would have quit after the first blood blister. He would latch for me so I wouldn't know when it was coming. There were times I would go to latch but be so scared because it hurt so bad. I had thrush and clogged milk ducts.  In the end , I can honestly say it was with it. I would do it all over again.

For those that only breastfed a few weeks or months, way to go!  In six weeks you have passed on all of your immunities. That's incredible. If you had low milk supply like me, way to go. Four ounces of breast milk a day is like giving your baby an antibiotic. If you had to or even chose to formula feed, props to you. I commend you for your hardwork. Keeping those bottles clean, waking up in the middle of the night to prepare the bottles that's a ton of work and you are awesome.
Whatever path you took I think all moms are pretty amazing. If you see a mom doing something different than you, please don't judge. Don't condemn or offer unsolicited advice. Be supportive no matter what choice they made as a mom. If I didn't have the drugs there is no way I could have survived breastfeeding.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Are you pregnant?

I'm overweight. I carry my weight in my stomach. I try to avoid tight clothes at all costs and buy large tops. I would do XL but they usually are too long. I got a Fitbit with the hopes that I could challenge myself to get steps in and exercise more. I try to take my lunches and not eat fast food. (Except Chick Fil A. They don't count. Everybody knows chicken is healthy. )
My son and husband do a great job of encouraging me and Ethan daily tells me how pretty I am.
I forget all of  that and can't remember their voices when someone asks me the forbidden question. "Are you pregnant?"  That one question reminds me that I need to lose at least 15 pounds and that I am indeed overweight. I've had people argue with me that I am pregnant. I've had people ask me days after coming back from maternity leave. And recently I had someone say, "Aww, I had no idea you were expecting again?!"  I know it sounds like a catty thing and I need to "get over it" but I share this to educate. Do not ask a woman if she's pregnant even if she looks like she is due any day now. It could be a hernia. Or like me November 2012, she could be in the middle of a miscarriage.  So unless someone has told you beforehand, hold the congratulations. You could save yourself a lot of embarrassment. And for  them,  some tears in their pillow at night.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

New Mom's Must haves 2014


It's only been three years since I had my boy, but wow have things changed.  So many amazing products that I highly recommend for your registry.  




This "NuRoo" is great not only for skin to skin, but also for carrying baby around and get stuff done around the house.



The NuRoo only lasts until 15 lbs and the Ergo baby takes over from there.  It's a great product highly recommended by all who own one.



The Medela Calma is a new Medela nipple that is breast feeding mom friendly.   I like it because it works just like the breast and it fits on the Medela bottles that I pump with.  However, once there is no more nipple confusion, go with Tommee Tippee.  Less parts to clean, and it is comfortable to hold.  My husband’s favorite.



Check that your insurance covers a pump.  I paid for a hospital rental Medela Symphony, and haven't noticed a difference in the two.  This is the Medela Advanced Portable Breast Pump.  I love it!  And it was free!


We make our own baby food and highly recommend the pouches.  Soo convenient!  Good job infantino!



This is next to my bed and has been such a lifesaver.  Baby girl loves it and so do I !  The Rock and Play has a vibration and she loves to look at the pictures.


I love all things Aden and Anias!  They have crib sheets, burp clothes, bibs, blankets, swaddles, and changing pads.  I love the feel and quality of their blankets.  I bought 12.


I love all things Tommee Tippee!  They have great bottles, diaper disposal, and bibs.  This is a new diaper changing pail that is pretty high tech.

There is no better pillow for learning how to breast feed.  I love my Boppy for holding my baby, tummy time, and nursing, but for beginning nursing the Brest Friend Pillow makes it easier.


I have saved myself from having to wash sheets every time she spits up or drools now.  Love the sheet saver.


I am all about ETSY right now.  I have bought personalized Carseat covers, diaper and wipes case, pacifier pod, and Boppy cover.  Highly recommend Etsy Shopping.


This is what I call nursing in style! I bought this at Etsy...https://www.etsy.com/transaction/180257913?ref=fb2_tnx_title  It’s also a scarf. 


This is beautiful above the crib!  And the seller is so amazing!  I highly recommend!  https://www.etsy.com/transaction/172815444?ref=fb2_tnx_title



Babies can only breath through their nose, so if it gets stuffy, it can really scare mama!  I love our humidifier!  This one is my favorite because it runs 55 hours and fights mold!  http://www.amazon.com/pureguardian-H1600-80-Hour-Ultrasonic-Humidifier/dp/B002KMILWA/ref=sr_1_21?s=home-garden&ie=UTF8&qid=1392352513&sr=1-21


A two way video monitor is awesome!  We love being able to watch our son and talk to him.  Baby Monitor


And lastly, the must have baby app!  The one I used for my first born was a one baby app and I love having that record for reference with Madison.  I couldn't use it without deleting that so I found this!  It's way better!  

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Baby Outings

I hope to spoil my baby this maternity leave...lots of places to take him.

Arturo's Nest at the Dallas Museum of Art
Baby and toddler park at Perot museum
Children's Aquarium at Fair Park
Childrens Park at Klyde Warren Park
Crybaby Matinee at the Angelika Film Center
Dallas Arboretum
Dallas Zoo
Irving Bible Church
Ark
Northpark Center
Prestonwood Baptist Church
Texas Discovery Gardens

Chronicles of a Diva mom-3 weeks

Being a mom of two is definitely an adventure.  The first two weeks were very difficult, but that's a whole different post.  This week I have been flying solo.  I can proudly say I'm doing it!  Yes, I forgot to brush Ethan and my teeth yesterday morning, but every day the kids are clean, clothed, and fed.  Plus, I've showered too!  I really have the perfect son at the perfect age to be the perfect brother to his perfect sister!  Everytime she cries he runs and finds me to tell me, "Sissy wants milk!"

Today, I proudly woke up at 7:30 and fed sissy, changed diapers, dressed kids, washed dishes, and gave sissy a bath.  Madison finally wound down to go to sleep and I was able to devote my attention to Ethan.  I heard some noises coming from sissy's diaper and went to change her.  She had a blow out.  I worked fast to try and clean up the messes and wouldn't you know that poop can projectile two feet!  So I did some laundry.  Amazingly I have had a very busy and exhausting day all before 10.  Phew.


Saturday, March 30, 2013

Day of baking

I have no idea what came over me.  I woke up with the desire to cook.  And so I did.  It began with breakfast.  My in-laws were here so I made breakfast.  Bacon, eggs, and http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2008/04/basic-breakfast-potatoes/


Basic Breakfast Potatoes

Prep Time:
 
 
Cook Time:
 
 
Difficulty:
 Easy
 
Servings:
 6

Ingredients

  • 4 whole (to 5) Large Red Potatoes
  • 1 whole Onion
  • 1 Tablespoon Vegetable Or Canola Oil
  • 1 Tablespoon Bacon Fat
  •  Salt And Pepper, to taste
  •  Red And Green Bell Peppers, Diced (optional)

Preparation Instructions

Place potatoes in a large pot and cover entirely with water. Bring to a boil and cook until potatoes are fork tender. When they are ready, place the potatoes on a cutting board and dice them into 1-inch pieces.
Next cut up an onion into a large, rough dice.
In a large skillet heat oil and bacon fat over medium-low heat. Put the onions in the skillet and sauté until they start to turn brown. (You can also use red and green bell peppers diced up. If you do, throw them in at this point).
Next, throw in the diced potatoes. Stir well and then slightly press/pack then. Now you will cook them without stirring for several minutes. You want the pan to be hot enough to crisp the potatoes but not hot enough to char them. (Optional step: sprinkle a bit of flour over potatoes as they cook). Cook for several minutes and then flip them with a spatula. Salt and Pepper them as they cook. Cook until desired brownness.
After breakfast, we to our loca MarketStreet and prepared for a feast.  Dinner was chicken on the grill, and a variation of the following recipe.  We added sweet potatoes and eliminated the parmesan.  
http://www.amateurgourmet.com/2008/11/the_best_brocco.html

The Best Broccoli of Your Life

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You know you’ve done something right with broccoli when the person you made it for describes it to someone else the next day as “better than biting into a steak.”
Those were Craig’s words and they were a marked change from the first words he uttered about the broccoli, before he bit in: “You made broccoli for dinner? Broccoli and sweet potatoes?”
Then he did bite in and his eyes lit up. “Oh my God,” he said. “This is the best broccoli I’ve ever had in my life.” Later he said: “If parents made this broccoli for their kids, kids wouldn’t hate broccoli. They’d beg for it.”
So what did I do to the broccoli to make it taste so good?
I can’t take any credit. The credit goes to that formidable force in my foodie life; namely, The Barefoot Contessa. From the very beginning, when I used to go to book stores and copy recipes out of her books on little index cards that I kept in my pocket, Ina Garten’s recipes have proved to be that perfect combination of simple yet sophisticated; she maximizes flavors in ways that are both ingenious and incredibly replicable. Anyone can do an Ina recipe yet when you taste the finished product, it doesn’t taste that way; it tastes like it was made by a pro.
I’m going to have a hard time this week not posting all of the recipes from her new book, Back To Basics. In the past few days alone, I’ve made her roasted pears with blue cheese and walnuts; her roasted sweet potato wedges (which I wrote about in the previous post); and from her “Parties!” book, her butternut squash soup and her roasted pork loin. As you can tell from these recipe titles, The Barefoot Contessa loves roasting.
Specifically, she loves roasting vegetables at a high temperature until they caramelize. That’s the basic premise of most of her vegetable recipes in most of her cookbooks and that’s precisely what makes her broccoli recipe the best you’ve ever had.
Normally, broccoli gets squishy when you cook it. Not this broccoli; it develops an amazing brown crust in spots. Then you toss it with lemon juice, lemon zest, and Parmesan cheese and you’re in heaven.
Seriously, this recipe is so easy I can recite it without looking at the book. (Ok, I’m lying, I’m about to open the book just to double check….)
You preheat the oven to 425.
Take 4 to 5 pounds of broccoli (I just got two large bunches), cut into florets (but relatively big ones.) Here’s the key that she doesn’t mention in the recipe: dry them THOROUGHLY. That is, if you wash them. I saw an episode of Julia Child cooking with Jacques Pepin once when Pepin revealed he doesn’t wash a chicken before putting it in a hot oven: “The heat kills all the germs,” he said in his French accent. “If bacteria could survive that oven, it deserves to kill me.” By that logic, then, I didn’t wash my broccoli; I wanted it to get crispy and brown. If you’re nervous, though, just wash and dry it obsessively.
Now, it’s easy. Put the broccoli on a cookie sheet. Toss with olive oil, salt and pepper. (She says 5 Tbs olive oil, 1 1/2 tsps kosher salt, 1/2 tsp fresh ground pepper, but I just eyeballed it.) Now add 4 garlic cloves that are peeled and sliced and toss them in too.
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Roast in the oven 20 to 25 minutes, until “crisp-tender and the tips of some of the florets are browned.”
I shook the pan around a bit as it went, but not sure that’s necessary.
When it’s done, take it out of the oven–and here’s where it gets really good–zest a lemon over the broccoli, squeeze the lemon juice over the broccoli, add 1.5 Tbs more olive oil, 3 Tbs toasted pine nuts (I left those out), and 1/3 cup of freshly grated Parmesan cheese. She also has you add 2 Tbs julienned fresh basil, but I left that out too.
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You won’t miss it: the magic combo of the crispy broccoli, the garlic, the lemon and the cheese will make this the best broccoli of your life. I guarantee it; you will go ga-ga over it. I’m so ga-ga over it that I would seriously consider a trip right now to the store just so I could make this for lunch. Broccoli for lunch? After trying this, you’ll never want to eat anything else for breakfast, lunch or dinner ever again.

I also made a loaf of bread in my breadmaker.  Winner winner bread for dinner!

http://www.kingarthurflour.com/recipes/100-whole-wheat-bread-for-the-bread-machine-recipe

For 1 1/2 lb. bread machine
1 1/4 cups water
2 tablespoons olive or vegetable oil
1/4 cup honey or maple syrup
3 to 3 1/2 cups King Arthur 100% White Whole Wheat or Traditional Whole Wheat Flour
1/4 cup sunflower, sesame or flax seeds, or a combination (optional)
1 tablespoon vital wheat gluten
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 1/2 teaspoons instant yeast
Put all of the ingredients into the bread pan in the order listed. Program for basic white bread, and press Start.

To make bread by hand: Mix the water, oil and sweetener in a large bowl. In a separate bowl, combine the flour, seeds, gluten, salt and yeast; add to the liquids gradually, stirring until the dough holds together. Knead on a floured surface until smooth and just slightly tacky — about 8 to 10 minutes. Place the dough in a greased bowl, cover, and let rise until doubled in volume, about 1 to 1 1/2 hours. Punch down the dough and shape it to fit a greased 8 1/2" x 4 1/2" loaf pan. Let it rise until doubled, about 1 to 1 1/2 hours. Bake in a preheated 375°F oven for 35 minutes, or until a digital thermometer inserted in the center of the loaf reads 190°F. Remove the bread from the oven, remove it from the pan, and cool on a rack.
And lastly, we knew tomorrow would be crazy with church and family, so we made the rolls ahead of time.  Woo hoo!  If it's titled World's best dinner rolls, I'm sold.
http://www.ourbestbites.com/2009/10/worlds-best-dinner-rolls/
orld’s Best Dinner RollsRecipe by Our Best Bites
Ingredients:
2 c. whole milk (if you’re in a pinch, you can use 2%, but whole is best. Don’t use 1% or skim)
½ cup + 1 tablespoon sugar, divided
1/3 cup (5 1/3 tablespoons) butter
2 teaspoons kosher salt
2 packages active dry yeast (or 4 1/2 tsp.), preferably bread machine yeast
2/3 cup warm (105-115-degree) water
8-9 cups all-purpose flour
3 beaten eggs
Instructions:
Combine milk, 1/2 c. sugar, butter, and salt in a medium saucepan. Heat over medium heat until butter melts. Remove from heat. Allow to cool to lukewarm. I usually rub some ice cubes along the sides of the pan or pop the entire pan in a sink full of ice cubes to cool the mixture down because this step can take forever. This step is really important because if the mixture is too hot, it will kill the yeast.
While the milk mixture is cooling, dissolve the yeast and 1 tablespoon sugar in warm water. Let stand about 10 minutes. If the yeast hasn’t bubbled, you’ll need to repeat this step–moving on with yeast that hasn’t been activated properly will only end in heartache for you and hate mail for us.
In a large mixing bowl, combine 3 c. flour and milk mixture. Beat on low for 30 seconds, scraping sides of bowl constantly. Add yeast mixture and beat on high for 3 minutes.
Add beaten eggs. Why should you beat your eggs first? Same reason you should combine your dry ingredients before adding them to moist ingredients when making cookies and cakes–it ensures everything is well-mixed and can be evenly-distributed through your dough or batter. If you add the whole eggs, your dough may not be as consistent.
Stir in as much remaining flour as needed to make a soft dough. This dough should be very soft–it will be coming away from the sides of the bowl, but it will still stick to your finger when you touch it. Don’t worry, it will firm up during the rising process. Part of what makes these rolls so good is that they’re so soft and light; if you add too much flour, they will be heavy and dense. Place the bowl in a warm place and cover with a clean towel; allow to rise 1 hour.
Punch down dough. Lightly flour your work surface and turn dough out onto surface. Divide in half.
Spray 2 9×13 glass pans with cooking spray. Roll first portion of dough into a rectangle and then cut it into 12 equal-sized pieces. I like to use a pizza cutter because it has a blade on each side, so it cuts right through dough without sticking to the blade. This dough should be very easy to work with, almost like playdough. Shape each piece into a ball and place in prepared pan. Repeat with remaining dough in the second pan.
Cover with a clean cloth and allow to rise in a warm place for about 30 minutes. When dough has about 15-20 minutes to go (depending on your oven), preheat oven to 375.
Bake for 15-18 minutes or until golden-brown.
When done, remove from oven. Rub a stick of cold butter over the tops of the rolls. You must now eat one. Now. While it’s hot.
Then pop the rest into a bowl and no one will ever know that you cheated. Makes 2 dozen rolls.



Thursday, October 18, 2012

State Fair

I love fried food. And we had the best. Corn dogs from Fletcher's are yummy. We also had the greatest lemonade and gorditas. The chocolate strawberries were meh.

We now have out dream car. The Highlander Hybrid. Soo nice.